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May 11, 2014

Impermanence is the best friend of the unhealed.

For those of us who fundamentally feel inadequate and unworthy of love. If we consistently push back against love when it arrives and never realize that it’s because of fundamental feelings of inadequacy, we will forever push back against love.

And these push backs can look so many different ways. Insidious. Subtle. We can consistently choose things that result in us being single. Pretty much anything can be rationalized.

Feelings of inadequacy prefer impermanence. Because permanent shyt forces you to see your flaws. Someone saying “I’m willing to be patient with you” can be far scarier than someone saying “Phuk dis. I’m out”.
#ComplexYetSimple #WeMustUnearthRootCauses
–The Ignant Intellectual

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